A lot has happened in a couple of years.
I wanted to buy an IPhone. I was saving for it for a long time. But then I realized Dad has a dream to buy bullet(because of our studies and expenses, he always neglects his dreams.) . I had saved enough for an iPhone but then I decided to gift dad a bullet from my saving. I'm saving for it. I thought I've put my Parents wishes above mine. I felt I'm matured.
My sister went to a doctor for a checkup with her husband. She got the news, she was pregnant. I was the first one she called. I had a tear drop in my eyes when she said, soon you'll be mamaji (uncle).
I said her, Dad and mom must be very happy? .she replied, You are the first one to know this.I asked, why me?She replied, you might be younger than me but after my marriage, you treat like an elder brother. You're a good listener.
I felt I'm matured.
I had a skullcandy headphone. I was pretty attached to it. My younger brother asked me for it, I gave it to him. I thought , now I value emotions more than the materialistic things. I felt I'm matured.
My mother was cooking and I heard her sneezing. She had cold .I made my mother rest and cooked food for her. I thought I have learned from my mother loving selflessly. I felt I'm matured.
I had a Gf. She was not emotionally stable. She had mood fluctuations. I didn't give upon her. I thought I've learned to be patient. I felt I'm matured.
A friend was going through rough patches in his life. He came to me for seeking advice.I tried giving some advice. They got along well. I thought I value relations.I felt I'm matured.
A friend punched me out of frustration. He left and I was stunned, he was my roommate. He came back, hugged me and said sorry . I left my ego and hugged back. I felt I'm matured.
A while ago, I overtook a car, the stranger yelled at me, I didn't take things personally. I felt I'm matured.
I hope I have written about maturity in this post. If not, you can call meimmature.. :)
